Confidence

Men love a woman who knows what she wants and who she wants A woman who takes command of situations and doesn’t mind showing she can make things happen on her own. Be yourself and let him know the real you. So if you want to seduce a man, first you need to be confident in who you are. Think about it like sales – if you’re selling yourself, you have to believe in the product, right? So be confident in your answers and show him you also know how to take matters (questions/sending a message first etc.) into your own hands.

Keep it short and sweet but ask questions!

Men usually keep messages short and sweet because they don’t know to ask questions so you initiate asking, and they will get into it. Don’t ask too much at once because that may seem overwhelming. Be clear in what you like and dislike this way you will not have any misunderstandings. For yourself you can make a list of things you would always want to know about the person you want to date. A kind of guideline to getting to know the person and if they have the characteristics you are searching for.

Don’t take it too seriously

That being said, perhaps the most important thing to remember when online dating is not to take it too seriously. It’s really just an artificial way to get people to actually approach each other romantically. To get to know each other and see if it will eventually be a match and you both want to continue to do other things. Let the person get to know you, the real you because ultimately you want them to know and like who you actually are.

Have a sense of humor!

Men like women with a sense of humor. It’s nice if you can show that you are not always super serious. So if you’re witty, let it shine both in your online dating profile and in your texts. Keep in mind that, especially early on, you are being assessed in everything that you say. If you had a bad day and really want to vent about it, realize that you don’t know this man well enough to do so, and you might come off as negative if you do. Instead, find a way to make light of your bad day or make a joke about your bad day!

View Online Dating as a Marathon, Not a Sprint

It’s easy to get disheartened after a few weeks of using dating apps with no great results. You may have good conversations with men you find attractive, only for them not answer after a few messages.. You may find no one that sparks interest. You might feel rejected if you get few messages. That is all very normal to experience. Online dating is a tool to find interesting people, not a magic wand that will automatically fulfill your desire for a boyfriend. And of course it takes work. Just like you have to apply for dozens of jobs when you’re looking for a career move just to get a few interviews and hopefully at least one job offer, you’ve got to put in the time on dating apps to make it work.

Don’t Lie!

One of the best tips to keep in mind: be honest! If you expect a man to be honest with you, whether it’s by showing photos that accurately portray him or being real in his profile, how can you expect to get away with lying yourself? You would not like meeting someone and they look nothing like their profile pictures or the pictures they sent you. So honest pictures and an honest profile!

It really goes back to the confidence thing: if you are secure in who you are, there’s no reason you should lie on your online dating profile. You’re a sexy, rockin’ lady, and any man would be happy to have the opportunity to go on a date with you!